Anyone ever feel depressed, or like killing yourself because you have genital warts? If So, whats the solution?
How do you live a great life (including great sex) in a life with reoccuring genital warts, even after many treatments?
Here's the reason for my depression:
1) Now I'm worried about getting penile cancer. Depressing. Some say it's a disease too rare to worry about. I hav warts that keep coming back. Thats suppositly rare too but I have it. Penile cancer is no different. Depressing.
2) Many people don't take penile cancer seriously, and figure life should be just as good without a penis when clearly, studies show the great depressions and suicides to those hwo have lost their penis. Horrifingly depressing.
3) Been going to the doctor for a few years removing penile and anal warts, and when they seem to be gone for a few weeks or months, they come right back. Depressing.
4) Poeple say genital warts are harmless. In my case, if not treated, they will get bigger and bigger to the point of constant itching, quick needle stabbing pains, and depressing discomfort.
5) Doctors always seem eager to ask if I'm gay when they find out I have anal warts, and then treat me accordingly even though I'm straight. That question is not only embarrassing, it's ilogical since it doesn't matter what your sexual orientation is, or if you have anal sex. You can still get anal warts. Thats depressing.
6) It's embarrassing wipping my d*ck out to the doctor for treatment ever time a wart grows. Why are there no over the counter medicines that actually work 100% effectively against warts? They only have basic creams that don't much of anything other than stain your underwear. Depressing.
7) It feels like I'm being anally raped by the doctor everytime I get the warts treated. Depressing.
People say HPV and genital warts are so common that most people have it. How come it seems that is a gross exaggeration to make people like me feel better about it, and actually it's not that common, and I'm just unlucky. Suicidally depressing.
9) They say usually very sexually active people with many partners get it. I only slept with two women in my life. DEPRESSING.
In fact, it's all depressing. Suicide seems like the only answer because thats bullsh*t if you have to live a less than normal quality life because even though you used protection, you didn;t know HPV existed, and that you could get it even with a condom on.
I see no reason to live. As a attempt to become un-suicidal, how have you dealt with this. And no, I don;t want to hear about all the people who slepted around but were lucky enough not to get it. Or those who have it, but lucky enough to not have breakouts.
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i’m very aware of your feelings. i have been there.
i suggest you join a support group and take part with them.
http://boards.webmd.com/.5987f42e/
email me should you feel the need to.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
Hey Loser..Where a condom
I have this as well, and yes it is very hard to deal with, as a woman, I had to have a leep and laser surgery plus I have to have pap smears every 3 months.. it has been very hard for me, the aldara cream was the only cream I found to be effective.. after I had a part of my cervix removed it wasn’t so bad, not as many breakouts, and now it is near to none, but at one point it was so bad I required laser surgery. I was like you at one point and felt like I couldn’t be normal, but I wound up researching it, and educated myself much more, and this eventually motivated me to go to nursing school and graduate.. you are right though I had anal warts at one point, but never had anal sex.. but ofcourse, no one wants to believe that.. people like to exaggerate truths.. but this is not worth you taking your life over.. you should try joining a support group, or seeking counseling,. I did, and it was worth my time.. and your doctor should never repeatedly ask you about your sex life, you are only supposed to feel out a questionaire upon your first appointment… or yearly.. but at any rate.. things can get better as hard as this is to believe right now.. and the good news is people are more accepting of this then you may think.. I met my husband after already having this.. basically I just told him straight from the get go.. I was lucky enough that he respected and loved me enough to be understanding and supportive.. also it sounds like you should maybe see another doc who would take your concerns more seriously.. this is your health and your body, all your doc seems to care about is getting paid…best of luck
Hmmm…How ’bout….DON’T COMMIT SUICIDE!!!!!….Wait…How DID you get genital warts? by sex,or were you born with a disease? if it was by sex,don’t ask people….you should have waited,and if you were born with it enjoy life,sex isn’t everything.
Depression = consult a psychiatrist
for the ease of mind.
I’m growing up to take my father’s place and become a psychiatrist myself. I’m not one (yet) but i’m studying really hard to be one so I could help people like you.
I know how you are feeling about having genital warts but its not the end of the world an you really should’t be thinking about suicide that is’t the answer in this case. Warts are aggravating and very stressful to get rid of because the virus in your system keeps building up abnormal cells and occuring warts again because it keeps making more and more infected cells that have this happen. Even tho you keep going to treatments and then disappear for a while they eventually come back because its just a strain that does you cant really do nothing about it. I had common warts on my 10 fingers and I had to get treatment for it to get rid of them becaues they look so disgusting and made me very depress to have ugly hands . Like 5 or 6 years went past and I had a wart growed back but all you can do is keep doing the treatments and get rid of them and deal with it. Because eventually the virus will disappear out of your body in some people but in other people it does’t mainly because of a bad immune system perhaps but who knows everybody’s body is different.
Ok. first off, settle down, Genital warts is not the end of the world. It is Treatable (with the right medication plus healthy lifestlye) I see you have tried so many ways to get rid of it. I myself have done that and I know what you feel, anyways, I am now warts free for almost 2 years, Please try wartrol thats what I used to take care of my warts, it is not instant or warts free in 3 days, but It will get the job done. the effects will depend on you as I have said healthy life style will help in faster healing process. good luck buddy
Me and my hubby had genital warts a year back. as the poster above said, Wartrol will be your best bet, lucky for us we learned about it first before trying so many things, so we are spared of some painful, and humilliating methods just to get rid of it. you can find it here http://www.wartrol.com/?aid=830371
Suicide is not the answer, it is not even an option . As person who also suffered fromHPv infection I know what you are dealing right now, but if it feels you any better, 75% of americans will have it in some point of their life. Now, what you have to do is find treatment, I know you had, but it doesn’t mean you will give up. everybody is saying about wartrol, I myself tried that and I’m quite satisfied with the result. so it’s all what you have to do, Find some treatment, wait till it healed then enjoy life.
Ok, of course you know suicide is not the answer, and I know you will not do it, you are just depressed and I know what you feel. although it is debated until now if you can indeed get rid of the virus or not some reports and studies says you can. so be positive